I'm a nice, gentle woman and as non-judgmental as they come. I'm very sensitive to a man's needs whether he's less experienced looking to improve that or just nervous and a little unsure of himself. I also enjoy telling jokes from time to time (even though I may not be very good at it). I'm impressed by any man who can make me laugh so if you have some jokes to share, please do. Laughter is my drug of choice.
Those who visit me may be married, divorced or widowers, single, or in-between relationships in need of some female touch. Many are just looking for a friendly, very well-put-together white woman closer to their own age.
I'm perfect for the guy who's been misled in the past. Most are looking for a predictable, safe professional to spice up their life from time to time without the drama. Some are just trapped in a personal relationship that for whatever reason isn’t quite meeting their needs. Of course, let's not forget the lonely "hooker-hobbyist" who spends his day trolling local review boards to post his opinion of his latest experience (and that's ok too).
Then there are the few who see me as a confidant to share thoughts with when those closer to them make little effort to listen or understand.
Regardless, there are many reasons good honorable men spend time with me. I'm a trusted, part-time playmate with whom they can enjoy an occasional, discreet, adventurous romp without any threat to their otherwise normal lifestyle.
I enjoy people from all walks of life who are in control of their time (i.e. mostly middle-class guys, retired seniors, skilled tradesmen and sales professionals. I'm also popular with accountants, lawyers, engineers, doctors, commercial pilots, firefighters, military men, investment brokers, contractors, business owners/executives, as well as the odd retired pro athlete or celebrity).
My late husband and I retired from the "regular world" about 10 years ago into a quiet, comfortable lifestyle. However, when he died a few years later, I sold the big house, invested a big pile of money for income and got into this business as a hobby.
I also enjoy swinger parties from time to time so if there are any well groomed, upscale WOMEN out there who would like to join me on occasion at a high-end house party, let me know. You may enjoy the attention from those at the party and make some cool connections.
Being a very sexual woman with a friendly, social personality, this hobby is a pretty good fit. I like visiting with and getting to know interesting people and I have no moral issues with my lifestyle choices. I'm STD/Drug free and VERY careful to keep it that way. Sociable and courteous men are welcome to join me for an "Afternoon Delight" whenever I'm available.
Healthy men want and need physical touch and good sex. Most normal women will occasionally trade sex for something they want in one form or another, whether they admit it or not. That’s the way the world has worked for thousands of years. I'm just straight up about it. The only variables are the value of the goods traded and how the trade takes place.
Experience teaches the worldly man that "if it flies, floats or fucks" and it later happens to go sideways, it's often much cheaper to have just rented it and walk away. There are many good men out there with expensive girlfriends who have learned that the hard way.
For some, recreational sex is no more exciting than Burger King. For others, it can be a 4 or 5-star white table-linen event. Atmosphere and how it's served, the trimmings that come with it and the attention to detail can often make a difference.
Candidly speaking, I'm a high-quality sex-worker, trusted part-time confidant, professional cocksucker and enthusiastic anal-queen that the average middle-class man can afford.
I offer a dignified, high class diversion from the wife, girlfriend or any other routine not quite doing it for you. It can be as raunchy as you like but never disrespectful, abusive or demeaning.
Notwithstanding some alone time with free online porn and one of the "palm sisters", there are only 3 ways men can get their basic human need met.
An honourable man can earn it in an unspoken (but mutually respectful) trade through the long-term integrity of his behaviour between himself and another within a meaningful personal relationship..., or he can simply rent it through the strength of his wallet supported by a respectful and predictable business relationship. Either way works just fine.
A dishonourable man however will try to steal it through deception, coercion, intimidation or force. (Which by the way is what created the "me-too" movement and why Roger Ailes and Bill O'Reilly lost their jobs at Fox News and why Harvey Weinstein and Bill Cosby went to prison and why the British Secret Service may have assisted in Jeffery Epstein's "suicide".)
My interest is solely on a business relationship. I am not a gold-digger in need of a sugar-daddy nor do I date or otherwise socialize with clients (past or potential). It only leads to unwanted drama and never, ever ends well so don't ask. You'll only be rejected and nobody likes being rejected.
When choosing an outside playmate, also consider the following...
Many mental health professionals would argue that the sex industry is an "essential service". Unfortunately in this country, it's also completely unregulated.
Notwithstanding that many of the young Asian girls, most of whom don't speak English, are being trafficked by organized crime and may or may not be disease-free, the sex industry is also heavily populated by transients, rip-off artists, unhealthy drug addicts and those who live a ghetto lifestyle. It can be a wild west out there.
Many discover sooner or later that not all providers are as advertised (stale or fake photos / 50+ lbs. heavier / exaggerated claims / unappealing location / etc.). It's not uncommon for the woman answering the door to be different from the one in the ad.
If her place is a mess or unkempt, it's likely her personal hygiene gets the same level of attention. If it's unfurnished or she doesn't speak English, she's likely being trafficked and you do not want to be there if the authorities knock on the door. If she works out of a cheap hotel/motel, you risk getting mugged by someone hiding in the room with nobody to tell. They know that because your personal life may get compromised, not to mention that you're illegal, you may have some uncomfortable explaining to do. (Most who get mugged do not report it. They just walk away wiser but intact knowing that if the muggers get their name & address from their wallet or the media, they may come after them later.)
On the other hand, there are also men out there who are actively looking for a party-girl willing to trade sex for drugs, or a crack-head, meth-addict or cum-dumpster they can mistreat in the hopes that she really needs the money.
BE AWARE - Although she's not hard to find on LeoList - I'M NOT HER!!
Treat me with disrespect and you'll get cut off at the knees.
Just my thoughts.